Be a Bad Asian
Live a life where YOU are less tired, stressed, and overwhelmed BY GUILT and SHAME.
Therapy for Overwhelmed Good Asian Boys and Girls
Calling all my Good Asian boys and girls!
Are you dragging yourself home every day, completely drained?
You hate your job, but you’re —working yourself to exhaustion, coming home just to work more because you’re afraid of getting fired.
You argue with your partner and fight. When you see your parents and it ends in a shouting match.
You’re a “Good Asian”
You don’t “waste” money, listen to your parents, keep everything in line.
You’re breaking your back to be good, yet somehow, it’s never enough.
You don’t even know what you truly want anymore—only what you’ve been told you should want.
No Body ever taught you how to be happy.
It’s not your fault.
You were told to just stick your head down, to just get a good job, make others happy.
Lets learn how to to put YOUR happiness first.
Put an END to Anxiety, Stress, and Overwhelm
You don’t need another person to please, or a promotion, or more money.
You Don’t NEED to Fix your Parents, or make them happy anymore.
You can’t afford to wait till “things get better.”
What you need is a guide, an expert that understands your story and has found a way OUT.
Meet your Guide!
Alex Ly, The Bad Asian Therapist
I’m the Bad Asian Therapist.
I help Asian Americans just like you find happiness without needing to hustle harder or please others.
In therapy, we cut the fluff. It’s real talk, no pretending. Just the kind of honest, eye-opening conversations that push you to grow.
It’s not easy. Growth and healing never is. But it’s always worth it.
Stop hiding behind grades, titles, achievements, or whatever mask you’ve been told to wear.
Let’s dig deep and rewrite the story. Let’s find that bold, fearless version of you—the one who’s been waiting to break free.
In my practice I’ve helped clients go from being anxious and stressed Asians to bold and brave Asians who are THRIVING.
Living a Anxious-Free Life is within REACH!
Stop freezing up, shutting down, or giving in when conflicts come up with your partner.
Get unstuck and find direction in your life.
Land that promotion, build your confidence, and stop holding yourself back from your dreams and goals!
Set things straight with your parents and family. No more toxic guilt trips or dreading family gatherings.
Embrace abundance. Yes, you can take nice vacations, treat yourself, and buy what you want—without feeling guilty.
Start feeling amazing about yourself WITHOUT needing to hustle harder, or perform better for others.
It starts here!
Schedule a Intro Call with the Bad Asian Therapist
Therapy Specializations
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Are you a “Good Asian”? Let’s be real—if you are, there’s a good chance you’re carrying some serious anxiety.
Maybe it’s about money, family expectations, your future, or that constant feeling of not being enough. Whatever it is, anxiety isn’t here to help you—it’s here to hold you back.
But guess what? You don’t have to play by those rules. It’s time to unleash your inner “Bad Asian”—the one who says no to perfection, no to the guilt, and no to the pressure.
Let’s kick anxiety to the curb and make space for the unapologetic, bold, and authentic you.
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Asian americans is the core of what I do. If you identify as Asian, 1st gen, 2nd gen, Asian Ajacent, half asian, or just idenetify with what I say, then I can help you. You deserve a therapist the knows your culture, gets your experience, and is brave enough to challenge your experience.
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What if the struggles you’re facing right now aren’t because you’re “lazy” but because you’ve been carrying weight that isn’t even yours? Let’s get real—at The Bad Asian Therapist, we’re here to unpack the hard stuff. We’re talking about trauma, not just yours, but the kind that’s been passed down through your parents, their parents, and generations before them. It’s time to stop blaming yourself and start understanding the bigger picture.
Therapy Locations
Online Therapy in California
Not near by? Want some convience? Let’s go online! Video therapy can be done by any California Resident
In-Person Therapy in Fremont, CA
Need something more intimate? See me in the flesh at my Fremont therapy office!
